Convenience: the friendship killer

I am a junior in college, and at 20 years old, I feel exactly the same bit of lonesome-ness I experienced as a freshman, just entering into this world that came to be mine 2 years ago. I have found that friendships come and go, and no one ever seems to be more concerned about "you" than they are "me". I am guilty of it, but I want to be free of the selfish ambitions that make college students "independent". Sure, I enjoy the occasional me-time to breath, think, plan, talk to God, etc..., but it would be so wonderful to share all of those experiences with a woman who shared hers with me as well. Convenience is a tornado that is killing the best relationships, friendships. It's really never convenient to spend quality time with people, but it's worth it. I need to do a better job.